Lunchtime Tarot is a come-when-you-can group that meets each Friday at my office in San Mateo, CA. I post the exercises here each week for those who are unable to slip away to join us.
I developed this exercise from one I posted a couple years ago.
Point of View
Go through the deck and pull out all the cards that a particular person in your life might use to describe you. This person in your life might be
- someone who is a significant ally in your life right now—someone who knows you and supports you. This might be a partner, a parent, a sibling, a co-worker, a friend, etc.
- an acquaintance who doesn’t know you very well. This might be a store clerk, your mail carrier, a co-worker from a different department, a friend of a friend, etc.
- a family member or a pet.
- a childhood friend that you have lost touch with.
- a teenage friend that you have lost touch with.
- an ex love.
- a nemesis.
For each round, record the cards that you have selected, so that you can see how many come up multiple times.
Consider that each card has a light side and shadow side. You might discover that one person in your life might describe you as the shadow side of a card while another might describe you as the light side of the same card.
For reflection:
- Are you surprised by any of the cards that you have chosen?
- Have any forgotten memories surfaced?
- Have any surprising feelings surfaced?
- What have you learned about yourself and the way others might see you?
- Which cards do you feel best describe who you are, or who you were at another time in your life?





























